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Category: Trauma

Priority : Welsh Cakes

On 14th Mar 2026 By Absurd RhioIn cluster headaches, eating disorder, trauma, Trauma3 Comments

I decided to make Welsh cakes during a cluster headache episode with no wooden spoon, minimal cookware, and a frog supervising the operation. This involved a mission to Lidl, a run-in with trauma, questionable amounts of Red Bull, and the very real possibility of producing frozen, burnt pancakes again.

The Washing Machine Spun and So Did I – The Laundry Mountain Meltdown.

On 17th Jan 2025 By Absurd RhioIn mental health, trauma, TraumaLeave a comment

I woke up with one simple goal: put the washing away. Instead, I found myself crying in a pile of clothes while my brain played the “Greatest Hits of My Failures.” Laundry Mountain loomed large, my ribs hurt, and the chaos felt endless. Why is something so small, so hard?

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